Gilmour
Counselling

Counselling in Vancouver, BC

We are now able to offer in-person sessions in Vancouver, British Columbia, while adhering to safe social distancing. Online counselling is also available using an encrypted and approved virtual platform. Please call for more info or book a free consultation or session.

Meet Dianne Gilmour

Couples Counselling, Marriage Counselling, Relationship Counselling in Vancouver, BC

At the very core of our work are four basic elements: authenticity, safety, respect, and hope.
We strictly adhere to the ethical standards of our profession and are committed to a ‘do-no-harm’ philosophy. We offer Couples Counselling, Marriage Counselling, and Relationship Counselling in Vancouver, BC

Communication & Trust | Self-Empowerment | Clear Structure

Couples Counselling

Nothing will get resolved in any relationship, regardless of what that relationship looks like, without healthy communication. Nothing. Misunderstandings, inaccurate assumptions, not feeling heard, not feeling comfortable sharing opinions, shutting down, yelling, resentments, anger…all result from ineffective communication.

Individual Counselling

Sometimes our lives can be so overwhelming we feel we’re drowning in the pain. We’re committed to walking beside you, breaking the situation into smaller more manageable pieces, bringing you relief…bringing you hope. There is no story that isn’t valid, no person who is not heard.

Life Transitions

Life is in a constant flow of transition, it just is – sometimes smooth and sometimes overwhelmingly difficult….ie) divorce or any change in relationship status, post-graduation reality, career loss or change, aging, empty-nesting, moving, health-related change…the list is pretty well endless.

Goal Setting & Homework

Goal setting is the most crucial and immediate step in our work at The Gilmour Group and homework assignments are always based on the goals set by the client.

Parent/Teen Counselling

Parents and their adolescent children are often triggered by each other – there are so many emotions that surface for everyone involved and as a result effective communication is almost impossible. The entire family is usually caught up in the conflict. At The Gilmour Group we are trained, experienced and able to help all parties feel heard and validated. Once that occurs lasting conflict resolution is far more likely.

Virtual Sessions Available

We are happy to offer phone or virtual sessions to our clients as we don’t want geography, lack of internet access or added childcare costs to be prohibitive factors in benefitting from our services.

Specializing in Marriage, Relationship & Couples Counselling in Vancouver, BC

Learn More About Our Approach

Most couples seek counselling as a last-ditch attempt to save their relationship. Unhelpful and often harmful communication patterns may have become so deeply entrenched they consume the relationship, leaving no room for happy memories together or remembering why they are still together at all. It often feels like there is no hope. Many traditional approaches to couples, marriage and relationship counseling explore familial patterns and childhood experiences which may have contributed to the current challenges in their relationship. These are, without question, valid approaches. However, at the Gilmour Group we are less interested in the history of the problem (our clients have probably already spent enough time and energy trying to figure that out prior to coming in to see us) but rather our focus is primarily on pragmatic steps to walk our clients ‘out of the problems’ and ‘in to the solutions’ to them. Our goal is to do this as quickly as possible.

Our NO-NONSENSE tools and strategies are research-based (see our Counselling Approach) and are not designed to be band-aids for the current crisis but can serve to provide the skills with which to bring about lasting change. We work with our clients in creating personally relevant strategies, clearly explaining and describing their purpose throughout the process, de-mystifying what can easily become a “fuzzy and blurry” process.

At the Gilmour Group, we believe that you have to “DO” rather than “THINK” your way out of conflict. We are here to facilitate the “DOING”, guiding the process with honesty, respect, humor, and hope.

The underlying principles of our work are applicable to couples, marriage, relationship, and individual counselling.

View Our Latest Blog:

SOLUTIONS in Counselling

by site administrator | Jan 18, 2018 | Solutions | 0 Comments

As you go through life, brother, Whatever be your goal: Keep your eye upon the doughnut, And not upon the hole. (Anonymous, 1998) This little snippet pretty well sums up my counselling approach in a nutshell. Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) is based on the...

“I’ve Been Dumped, I Can’t Breathe and I Need Hope”!

by site administrator | Nov 21, 2017 | Break Ups, Relationship | 0 Comments

Preface: The following isn’t gender, age, race or sexual orientation-specific. I refer to the client as ‘they’ and to the boyfriend/girlfriend as the ‘partner’. The First Call I get the call from the client, I can tell right away they’re fighting to keep themselves...

To Leave or Not to Leave – A Tough Conversation

by site administrator | May 29, 2016 | Decisions, Relationship | 0 Comments

I often get clients coming in who are at a crossroads in terms of whether or not they should leave their relationship – these clients generally come in on their own initially so we aren’t having this conversation in front of their partner. This of course creates a...

We can be reached at 604-880-0941.

Dianne is accepting new clients and is honoured to support all clients using online/virtual platforms during these challenging days of mandatory social-distancing. She is also seeing clients in-person while strictly adhering to safety guidelines.

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