How Do I Find a Therapist?

Word of mouth is often the best way to find a qualified therapist. Network with friends, relatives and neighbours who have had positive therapy experiences. A satisfied customer is living proof of positive results. Keep in mind, though, that although a word-of-mouth referral is a good way to find a therapist, it is not foolproof. Your friend or neighbour might click with someone who might turn you off. As always, you must be the final judge. If you trust and respect the person making the referral, more likely than not you will also have a good experience. In any case,k it's a good place to start.
If you are uncomfortable talking to others about seeing a therpaist, you will probably go on-line to see who/what is available in your community. You will also probably notice that there are literally hundreds of therapist to choose from. Take a look at as many sites as you can and trust your gut instinct. Then call the therapist and ask as many questions of her as you need. Some questions you may want to ask are:

1. What is the therapist's educational and training background?

2. Is the therapist a member of a professional governing body?

3. Does the therapist have experience treating your kind of problem?

4. How much does the therapist charge?

5. Are the therapist's services covered by health insurace?

6. Where is the office and what are the office hours?

7. How long does each session last?

8. How often are sessions held?

9. What is the average length of treatment?

10. What percentage of the couples coming to this therapist are able to resolve their difficulties without ending the relationship?

(excerpt from"Divorce Busting", Michele Winer-Davis)